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Quick answer: Good book club questions for Untamed focus on themes, memoir and critique. Below are 18 questions grouped by theme, with a spoiler-free summary, a characters-and-themes table, meeting ideas and a sample 90-minute plan.
Quick facts
– Book: Untamed by Glennon Doyle
– First published: 2020
– Setting: Florida
– Adaptation: None
– Content note: Divorce, infidelity
Untamed is a rewarding choice for a book club because it gives readers plenty to discuss without needing special knowledge. This guide gives you questions you can use as written or adapt for your group, plus ideas for running the meeting, so that a host with little time can still lead a good conversation.
Table of Contents
Spoiler-Free Summary
Glennon Doyle tells how she left a life that no longer felt true after her marriage ended and she fell in love with soccer star Abby Wambach. She calls on women to trust their inner voice, the “knowing.”
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Main Characters and Themes
| Character or Theme | What to Know |
|---|---|
| Glennon Doyle | The author |
| Abby Wambach | Her partner |
| The knowing | Her inner voice |
| The cheetah | A story |
Discussion Questions (Contains Spoilers)
These questions assume everyone has finished the book, so they discuss the ending. They are grouped by theme so you can move through them in order or jump to the topic your group cares about most. Feel free to rephrase them, add follow-up questions such as “why do you think so?” and skip any that do not suit your members.
Opening Reactions
- What was your first impression of Untamed, and did it change as you read?
- Which scene or passage stayed with you most, and why?
Themes
- What does “untamed” mean?
- What about the cheetah?
- What about the cage?
- What about trust?
Memoir
- What about her marriage?
- What about her family?
- What about love?
- What about faith?
Critique
- What worked?
- What did not?
- What about privilege?
- Would you recommend it?
Looking Back
- How did the ending of Untamed make you feel, and was it the ending you expected?
- Would you recommend this book to a friend, and what would you tell them first?
- If you could ask Glennon Doyle one question, what would it be?
Meeting Ideas
Share a moment you trusted your gut.
A simple way to start is to have each person share a one-sentence rating of the book before discussion begins. It surfaces disagreements early and gives quieter members a chance to speak first. You can also ask each member to bring one question of their own, which often leads to the best conversations of the night.
Ways to Make the Discussion Richer
- Compare formats. If a film, series or stage version of Untamed exists, discuss what changes and why.
- Share a favorite line. Ask each person to read a short passage that stood out and explain what it meant to them.
- Cast the book. Ask the group who they would cast in the main roles, and why.
- Rate the pace. Ask where the book felt fastest or slowest, and whether the structure worked for them.
- Pair it with a snack or drink. Food connected to the story gives guests something to talk about before the formal discussion starts.
Tips for Leading the Discussion
- Prepare, but stay flexible. Pick a handful of questions in advance and let the group's reactions guide you.
- Invite quieter voices. Ask someone who has not spoken to share a favorite line or scene.
- Welcome disagreement. A lively debate about a character is a sign that the book is working.
- Return to the text. Ask members to point to a passage in Untamed that supports their view.
- Watch the clock. Move on when a question has run its course, and save extra questions for another time.
If your group has only an hour, choose one question from each theme and skip the rest.
Is Untamed a Good Book Club Pick?
A popular memoir with divided opinions. It works well for groups that like to talk through character choices, and the questions above leave room for members to bring their own experiences and favorite scenes to the table.
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How to Structure Your Meeting
A 90-minute meeting works well in four parts:
- Welcome and quick ratings (10 minutes). Settle in and share a one-line reaction.
- Spoiler-free talk (20 minutes). Start with characters, setting and style before the plot.
- Spoiler discussion (45 minutes). Work through three or four of the questions above, letting the conversation wander when it is productive.
- Wrap-up (15 minutes). Share favorite lines, choose the next book and thank the host.
If the conversation is going well, it is fine to let it run long and skip some questions.
After the Meeting
Send a short follow-up message with the next title, the date and a link to any readings or articles that came up. Some groups keep a simple record of books read and ratings, which makes it easier to choose future picks and spot the kinds of books the group loves most.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How many questions should we prepare for Untamed?
Five to eight is enough for a 90-minute meeting. This guide gives eighteen, so you can choose the ones that fit your group.
Does Untamed work as a first pick for a new book club?
A popular memoir with divided opinions.
Is it controversial?
Some.
Is it a memoir?
Yes.
What if some members have not finished Untamed?
Start with the spoiler-free questions and a short plot recap, then move to the spoiler section only when most people have finished.
Who are the main characters in Untamed?
The key people to know are Glennon Doyle (the author); Abby Wambach (her partner); The knowing (her inner voice); The cheetah (a story). Keeping this list handy helps members follow the discussion.